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October 14, 2008

COPING WITH CHANGE

As soon as something nudges us out of our regular routine, or challenges our understanding of how the world works and where we it into it, we’re likely to experience a deluge of feelings, including fear, anxiety, overwhelm, excitement, distraction or denial. In turn, those feelings can manifest
in behavior. You may, unconsciously, act out with aggressive or passive aggressive communication. You may push yourself to overwork or take the opposite approach and procrastinate, avoiding what’s on your plate. Your self-care may suffer. You may reach for unhealthy substances or behaviors, get less sleep, skip meals or overindulge. You might cut yourself off from friends and family and spend more time alone or with people who have unhealthy habits. The Impact Stress from both positive and negative change can have immediate and longterm effects. Stress inhibits digestion and absorption of nutrients, impairs your body’s ability to ward off germs, can cause insomnia and worsen preexisting health conditions. If you’re
also engaging in unhealthy behaviors and poor self-care, you’re at an even higher risk for illness or injury. Mental abilities can be affected, as well. When you’re preoccupied, worried and focused on the future instead of the present, it’s much harder to concentrate and/or apply your brainpower to what’s in front of you. Great leaders are admired for their serenity and confidence in the face of uncertainty. For many of us, though, when change is afoot, serenity is far from our reach. Instead, emotions are much closer to the surface and can flare up at inopportune times. Whether you lash out, cry or pound on your desk, it’s uncomfortable to feel out of control. How to Cope with Change Here are five strategies to help you face change:

  1. Take care of your body. Eat well, sleep
    well, exercise to discharge stress and
    refrain from harmful habits, such
    as smoking, excessive drinking,
    recreational drugs or other risky
    behavior.


  2. Take care of your mind. Stay in the
    present moment by practicing
    deep breathing and/or meditation.
    Challenge your negative thinking and
    keep things in perspective

  3. Express your emotions in healthy ways.
    Share them with your therapist and
    people you trust. Vent your negative
    feelings by pounding on a pillow or
    banging on a drum.

  4. Treat others well. Strengthen your
    good relationships so you can draw
    on their support, and work at your
    challenging relationships so they
    don’t add to your stress.

  5. Take charge. Be proactive and prepare
    the best you can for the changes
    that might come, but then accept the
    reality of the moment. Think back
    to other challenges you’ve come
    through and remind yourself that
    everything will work out okay this
    time, too.

Into every life change will come, but its lasting impact doesn’t have to be harmful. Change also has a way of opening new and rewarding doors. Bottom line, let change be the catalys for better self-care, which will feed you in all times, stable and uncertain. *

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